why do we have this black on black struggle,.
im going to break it down for you all on this thread as they call it.
we have to stop blameing eatch other and start blaming ourselves for the things that is going on with a black man not wantting a black women or a black women not wantting a black man. is that what it is about the color, the skin, im lightskin and i can tell you i didnt get here from two african american people its called being mixed. yes white and black makes a beautiful person. i have to say what am i do to im mixed should i go with a african american women or a white women well in this day in age, most men or women have or has dated different races. what do you find interesting about this race that you dont in another race, its not about what one should be with its about one being with someone that he can relate to , that he can feel good with, so lets say a white girl treats his man like a king, and a mexican treats him like a slave, and a african american treats him like shit, and an asian treats him like he should only love rice, now you tell me who would you go with, RIGHT the white girl! why cause she treats him like he should be treated. now in the defense of our women or sisters, dont take fault in a black man not wantting you, to me you have every right to have an attitude, every right not to open up your vault right away, i no that as easy as she can give you an attitude is as easy as she can smile if you give it time, its all up to our african men. ask yourself why do they have attitudes why are they so called ghetto, why do they seem to give it up like its no tommorow , well ant that what men do, we can be ghetto, we can be loud, we can be moody, you see the black man thats with the white girl, go up and talk to him, you would think you was talking to Alfonso Ribeiro from the The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. he most likely grew up in the suburbs and was brought up around whites, so how can be judge someone who like whites. the brother that grew up in the hood, who has no maners who only thinks of sex is always going to be down for the sisters, thats the sisters that are out here running wild, and giving sisters the bad name, so we have to look deeper in understanding that the black women are not scaring out the black men, i feel that it has to be equal treatment towards eatch other. most people in life always seem to pick the wrong person and that leads to people have bad experiences with the same race. so they look for something different and that saying once you go black you never go back well once you go another race/ youll never put on another chace/. i promise you i grew up dating african american women, and i have a handsome son with her, but she was ghetto well let me not say ghetto, she had hood like mentalitys that i relized as we were together, now if you go back into her life, she grew up in the hood , her mom died at a young age, so she only new how to be the way she was, like some of you say in these post , she was loud , she would love to cause a seen, she was imature, she was rude at times, but she was who she was cause of how and were she was raised. since then i have always had a bad taste in my mouth for african american women just that one bad experience did it for me, just that one did it.. after that i dated mexican women and i have to say they have there ways to, there controlling there fisty but i like that, i want a women to be strong and yes i like them a little crazy  . I have dated an asian there real quite not the wild type but are good in bed, but thats not all im looking for, i have dated lightskin women that are mixed just like myself, and they are shy yet can have african american ways why shouldnt they , because they are black and white . RIGHT? So its not who you date or who you want to be with its about as long as your happy, stop saying that black girls have attitudes maybe its the way you approched her, maybe shes tired of men always calling her a bitch just cause she wont give a man her number, think about it women have been going through it for years, not just with men but back in slavery days, haveing babys with men that say oww i love you well im pregnant oww i though i loved you. DAMMM !!!!! women are fed up , and i feel why there the way they are but sister we love you, we love everything about you, but you treat us all the same, good men to professional men to good looking men you treat us as if were those thugs or niggas. you look at us as if we are trash so when we go to the other side its because its a cicle that is not yet broken we start if you finish we start if you finish we need to come together and try to love eatch other again. and women i hope you understand when we see you walking down the street or in that club we judge by action, by response, hay at least we tried. RIGHT? well i hope that i made some clearance to the madness so women just no your not scaring us away your making us relize what we are doing wrong and what we are. Im not mad at you like tu pac said, men or should i say satins that our out here are doing a good job of killing our black sisters spirits. and again us as men need to not give up if she has an attitude dont just say well fuck you bitch get to see why she is in a bad mood, if she is good in bed find out what else she is good at, if she is imature show her the way to being a women. be strong as a king and she will become a queen be soft as a whistle and she wont speak so loud, be nice and polite as you can and she wont be so mean, be a gentlemen and she will give you the world.
peace and love
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