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Originally Posted by Secondpath
Hey guys,
I think you misunderstand me. Transferring in especially, it's really, really difficult to meet people at the specific school I'm in. Last year I was super miserable because it was so hard to make friends, even with all the different clubs I joined.
I'm not much of a partier (actually I hate super-large parties). The reason I mentioned their socials and formals and stuff was because 1st frat just seemed to have better social networking. I mean, obviously I care about being a brotherhood, but I'd also like to branch out and meet more people on campus and it seems like backup frat only hangs out with themselves.
But yeah, I would feel really bad stringing anyone along....
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Well, I'll be honest... I've known a good number of people who have deferred bids... but it was for reasons such as: Need to focus on school, personal/family problems, money issues, etc. It was more of an "I'd love to join, I just can't right now" type situation.
But what you're saying is, "I'll hold off to see if this other group who didn't offer me a bid, offers one to me next semester." Just think of how it will look to them if you're attending the other fraternities rush activities, while they're holding a bid for you.