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Originally Posted by USFrush09
I have decided to try it out for a couple of weeks (before initiation) and see how I will feel. I just feel guilty that I might of taken away a bid from someone else that might of really loved my sorority. I really don't even know if greek life is for me. Another factor is that right before recruitment started I had serious family issues. I am just confused right now and don't know where to turn.
Any advice is appreciated.
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You didn't take anyone's bid.
If you are having family issues, I'm sure that plays into it. Try to make this your away from that time - and don't hesitate to share with your new sisters. They may be more help than you could ever imagine. I would have spared myself and others a lot of hurt and pain if I would have opened my mouth and told my sisters about the friend and relationship problems I was having during my pledge time.