I have never regretted my decision, but that doesnt mean that sometimes when things get hard that I dont have a "what if" moment from time to time.
I think enjoying membership in a sorority both as a collegian and alumnae member is mostly about effort. How much effort are you willing/currently putting in to make the most out of your experience? I personally put in a lot of time as a collegian and currently put a lot more time in as an alumnae member (and I am not a recent graduate). Therefore I got/get a lot out of my experiences. Both have their own set of trials/frustrations/bumps in the road. How you deal with those trials/frustrations is your own choice. Are you willing to make the most of it to the best of your ability? Are you willing to take notes and learn from the experiences both positive & negative? Are you going to throw your hands up and quit when the going gets tough or stick it out and be stronger?
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