[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Xanthus

1st off, fuck you troll buster. I'm not a fucking troll. You seem to think anyone with under 100 posts is a troll, when in reality you're the only dipshit on here trolling. I knew what I was getting myself into when I started this thread, but this is serious and I don't need you posting your stupid jokes. No one gives a shit about your stupid troll busting, you fake moderator stupid fuck. stfu or gtfo!

I know a lot of what I said doesn't make any sense, but right now this is all new to me. I know, I fucked up, but I have to put that behind me now, and move on. KSU Violet I already said "I brought this on myself", post your thoughts, but I don't need you to repeat it back to me. Pretty boy, to answer your question, I'm not ready to be a parent, (if you're not already) are you? If you and others were in my shoes, you would have doubts too. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent. I pretty much know it's my kid, but I also know people who thought the kid was theirs and it wasn't.

Kevin and the rest who have given good advice to me, thanks a lot for your support. I made an appointment with an attorney for Wednesday and I'm getting a physical this Monday. I'll keep you guys posted. Probably via pm because some of you aren't being very helpful at all. Kevin and 33girl thanks again.

I guess this isn't a joke. My bad.

@ the small bolded quote.

@ the big bolded quote, I agree with the first part. You're right, you messed up, but it's a mistake that you still can rebound from. Like you said, now you have to put it behind you, but at the same time be the best father you can be and give this child enough guidance and support to be the best person he/she can be by giving him/her the tools he/she needs to succeed in the world, a strong faith, and a good education.

No, I'm not a father, but I know what commitment and responsibility are. I agree, not everybody is cut out to be a parent, but you knew before you laid down with this woman, that you didn't want to be a father, at least not at this time in your life. Don't compare yourself to me because I wouldn't put myself in your shoes, if I knew that I wasn't able to accept parenting as a lifetime commitment. I wouldn't take a risk by having sex especially with a woman I don't have anything in common with or don't want to be with not only physically, but emotionally and spiritually as well. Based on your post and other posts I've read of yours, it was all about the physical for you, as it is for many, and that's what I think is sad. This is where you and I differ. My advice to you now is to be there for this child, because being there can make all the difference in the world.

Good luck and stop screwing women you don't want to be with, and invest in some condoms.