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Thank you to everyone. I didn't go through recruitment before because I was always afraid to. I was intimidated, but now I feel like if I don't, I will regret it.
My husband supports it 100% as long as it makes me happy.
It is not that I want to join Alpha Gamma Delta, and no one else, it was one that I did a bit of research on already so I just asked about it. I want to give all the sororities a chance, because I don't think it would be fair to judge before meeting them.
The man at the Greek Life office said he did some "research" after I asked him about being married. I should have clarified, he said 3 of the 4 ask current members to take alumnae status if they get married in college. So, he doesn't think they will extend a bid to someone who is already married (which makes sense).
You're right, I won't really mention my husband during recruitment unless of course someone outright asks about my being married.
Also, I'm afraid they will not like my being married or think I'm weird for going through recruitment, but I feel like this is something I will regret if I don't at least give it a shot.
Thanks again to everyone, and if you have anymore suggestions or comments, I would really appreciate them :-).
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