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Originally Posted by DGTess

Remember also -- not all sorority women will stalk you on line.

Not all will go seeking out information you don't volunteer.

Some will recognize you change things to avoid being detected, and that is not a challenge to test others' google-fu.

Some will realize that you may not know all the unwritten "rules" of greekchat.

Those who would "out" you against your will are those who give sorority selection processes a bad name.

Oh but some folks are like that. It's no fun, but it's reality.

To be honest: You are making your recruitment public info. No one is seeking it out.

99% of the people here are not people who seek out stuff. Most of us only figure things out based on what the PNMs put out there.

Also, people forget that ANYONE can read stuff they post here.

Half of the time, if a PNMs thread negatively affects her recruitment, it's because a sorority member from HER SCHOOL saw it. Alot of times, they don't even POST here, but they happened to read it.