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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
but how does one play the game? that i can't say. you could not list your legacy status on your recruitment enrollment form, ask your recommendation writers to not list it when they write a rec. to a non-legacy chapter, and not mention your status when conversing with members. if questioned by members,i would not lie-i would probably say something to the effect that my sister is a member of xyz sorority and she and you agree that you have to make your own mind up and find the place that suits you the best.
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I agree with this advice. There's no reason for non-legacy chapters to be informed about your status unless members of those chapters ask you about it directly (i.e. "Aren't you Susie ABC's sister?") If they already know, or find out anyway, that is beyond your control.
The best possible response to questions is that you are keeping an open mind, which you should be doing anyway. As others have stated, there are no guarantees with regard to bidding.
Good luck to you! Have fun going through recruitment and stay positive.