I certainly wouldn't limit it to fraternity men because I saw the same kinds of behaviors in my ex-husband's group of friends(second husband, non-greek). Additionally, to them (and to the fraternities, back in my day) there were two types of women.. the type they talked about and the the type they really liked. Long term girlfriends/fiancee's and eventually, wives, weren't treated this way. In fact, there was more of a protective nature toward the serious girlfriend's of brothers and if a guy from another fraternity made a comment about a brother's girlfriend? Well, that could result in an all out brawl. The longterm girlfriends knew which rooms had peepholes and knew to avoid those rooms.
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