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Originally Posted by Zillini
I understand that you appreciate knowing what may have occurred. Just keep in mind that there is no way for you to know if this is the truth, especially considering the source. This person is considering resigning, therefore must be unhappy with her org/sisters and obviously has no qualms about violating the confidentiality of the organization she pledged herself to for life.
Regardless of whether she told you the truth, a fabrication, or embellished, it sounds like she is purposely trying to create drama for that chapter on campus -- a parting shot if you will. Being unhappy is no excuse. She has no sense of loyalty, committment, or honor. The organization and her sisters are entitled to her loyalty and in this case her continued confidentiality even if she does resign. If she doesn't, I hope her org takes action through their standards process.
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You know, I agree with all of this, but I can't help but wonder how true the story is. Do you think a sister who really didn't want a PNM in her chapter would wait until after pref to try and get rid of the PNM? That would seem like the worst time since no matter how low on the list that PNM goes, there is still a chance that she will get a bid since she will be on the bid list. It may make this PNM feel better about the way things turned out, but I'm not buying it!