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Originally Posted by JohnnyCash
This may be the root of the problem. Once your chapter starts "getting its shit together," then things will get better.
But if you belong to one of those chapters full of girls that KNOW they're not top tier and don't care about it, then there may not be much you can do.
If you're the only one who cares about not having a good reputation and the rest of your sisters are fine with who they are/their reputation on campus, then you're pretty much s.o.l.
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Johnny Cash, you are the man. This is it exactly.
Like I said - you've been a member for 2.5 seconds and no one is going to cotton to you saying that you need to fix your rep, even if they agree with you. Just like in any group or relationship, you need to stand back and listen and learn a bit before offering up all your opinions.
There are chapter where the sisters really don't like each other at all, and then there are others where they "fight as hard as they love and love as hard as they fight." Again, you need to stand back and listen and learn a bit where this is concerned.