
03-20-2009, 03:21 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Indiana
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Originally Posted by Blue Skies
Start befriending the girls who sit close to you in your classes (this works best in smaller classes or in classes that are in your major.) Smile, and ask a particular girl about what will be on the next quiz or when the next paper is due. Follow up with an observation about something currrent on campus and a question, i.e. "Wow, I had a hard time focusing on this homework assignment with all the excitement about the NCAA championships. My dorm is in an uproar. Is yours?" etc.
Grab a group of friends and start going to every party that you hear about. Practice walking up to people, smiling, and saying, "Hi, I'm [name]." Start with conventional questions (dorm/hometown/major, etc.) then go to an observation and question. Practice, practice, practice until you can make friendly conversation with a brick wall (LOL!) Ask people about themselves, and try to find a way to make them laugh. They will love you for it!
Also, set aside study time each day and join a club or two. Then give recruitment another go. Good luck to you!
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I think this is excellent advice in general, not just for recruitment!
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