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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
At my particular school, we had girls rush who were lavaliered to fraternity boys. They wore their lavalieres. It didn't matter a whole lot, because most of us didn't notice them (just b/c they were careful not to talk about their bfs or fraternities during recruitment).
However, I understand that there ARE schools at which a chapter WILL cut a PNM thinking "Oh she is lavaliered to a ___ so she probably only wants to be a ____."
If you are afraid that that will happen, I'd suggest NOT wearing it.
Better safe than sorry, and I'm sure the bf will understand if you explain.
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If you're going to wear something with a high neck, wearing the lavalier might be a good idea. If the subject comes up, you can show it. Chances are, with deferred recruitment, many of the women may already know.