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Originally Posted by LucyAnne17

I know you probably don't feel comfortable talking to people about going to the doctor and stuff, but you should consider going to the mixers. I am telling you. Even if you feel totally ostracized from people and feel like you don't belong, show up at a mixer, and you will have closer friends the next day. You don't have to drink. You don't have to stay out all night. You can go home and be in bed at 11pm. But dont you think a little less sleep one saturday a month is worth having some good friends? Just give it a chance, and I promise you will see results.

YES.

No one is saying you have to go to the social and stay the entire night.

No one is saying you have to go and get drunk.

No one is saying you should skip your Dr. appts.

All we're saying is that you should just GO.

It's just like when you first came to college. You didn't make friends by sitting in your dorm and waiting on them to come to you. The sorority is THE SAME WAY. You have to get out there and go to stuff to make friends.