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Old 01-02-2009, 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted by sherryanne View Post
Basically, at the beginning of the year, I told my roommate that no boys are allowed in the room overnight, but she has broken that a few times already
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Originally Posted by sherryanne View Post
Yes. We had a roommate contract. I was fully aware that she had a boyfriend and he would possibly stay over a night every now and then. However, our housing department does not allow a resident to bring a guest over for more than two consecutive nights, and she broke this rule.
So... you knew and agreed to the fact that she would bring her boyfriend over every so often? If this is the case, it's fine for her to do so. 6 nights in a row, however, is breaking the rules of the university, as you stated. So you do have a right to do something about it.

But the outcome might not be what you want it to be. You've talked to her once about it, and hopefully everything will work out. If not, though, you run the risk of a) dealing with her bf practically living with you b) giving her an "I'm going to tell on you" ultimatum, or c) moving out.
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