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					Originally Posted by  alphagamzetagam
					 
				 
				I don't think banking is the reason why a couple should get married or that it should be a cause of contention between couples.  
 
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I'm confident that once we can afford a small wedding and the stuff that goes into it without throwing ourselves into debt, we will be getting married. 
			
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 I think you are right on about this.  I already know a few couples that married before they were really ready, and then poof, marriage ended in a year or so.  I hate seeing that.  It's usually because they don't have enough life expeirence on their own and I really do wish more people my age would put off marriage until they are a bit more mature and sound, both emotionally and financially.