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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek
For those of you who have a child, are getting ready to have a child, or want a child in the future, what would be the last (most dreaded) thing you would hate to find out about your daughter/son?
I don't have any children, but if I did, I would be devastated if I found out my daughter/son was on drugs.
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Honestly, I gave this a lot of thought. IF (big if) I ever had children, I don't think that dying/terminal illness would be the worst thing. I mean, yes, tragic and would probably require a lot of grief counseling.
However, the most devastating thing that a child could do would be more like if they were going against every value I would have taught them, like being a Republican, a Scientologist, or committing a crime. Something about those things just makes me... I dunno, it was like when I found out that one of my childhood friends was a Republican, I was so disappointed and heartbroken that she and I would never be friends again.