What if the OP really has been making an honest effort to get to know these women but they aren't reciprocating? She can't make anyone be friendly in return or like her, and if she pushes too much that would work against her. At what point should someone in her situation cut their losses and walk away?
Just curious to know, if you don't mind enlightening me.
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Originally Posted by ree-Xi
I don't understand how you can have attended "many events" and not yet "know any member" well. Without knowing anything more than you have posted, I would suggest connecting with the members on some level beyond "attending". Participating and having converstations is a great way to start. How can you expect to be invited to be a member of any organization that requires a membership process, if no one knows you?
It's up to YOU to try to get to know people in this situation, not the other way around.
Lastly, if I am correct, this post should be in a different forum. I only replied bc it's in a general forum.
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