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			2 words.... ACTIVE LISTENING 
 
Don't go into a party with a list of canned questions. Just enter into a conversation naturally and LISTEN to what the other person is saying. Base your next question (or comment) on something she said. 
 
Example:  
"What did you do with your time off this summer?" 
 
"Oh, not much -- just worked and went to see my grandparents." 
 
Next question...ask about work or where her grandparents live, etc. 
 
Active listening is the key.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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