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Originally Posted by tzipporah
You're right, I am at a school with deferred recruitment. The silence period doesn't start until mid-December. Plus last year she asked me to lunch about this time (a little later in the semester, admittedly).
I don't think it'd be against the rules, but I'm afraid of coming across too forward! AHH I don't know what to do 
I really like this girl and I really do like the women in her house. |
Speaking as someone who went through deferred formal recruitment at a school where fall "informal" was really important, you should definitely go to lunch with her. DEFINITELY. Don't worry about it. Rather than seeming too forward, rejecting an invitation might seem like you're not interested in her sorority. Now, don't invite yourself to lunch with her. But if she invites you, you should accept. If silence doesn't begin until mid-December, you should be fine. The only thing is that she cannot pick up your lunch or anything - that would be a red flag that she is committing a recruitment violation.
I'm making the assumption here that your school works a lot like mine did...