[Kansas City]

Originally Posted by scoobydoo

i'm not worried. i'm excited! she is my first to go to college and she is going to participate in something i never did and i want to learn about it so when she talks to me about it, i don't bombard her with lack of understanding. that's why I'm here.

In this situation, might it be best to let your daughter go through the process on her own and then inform you with her own personal experiences as they relate to her particular campus and Panhellenic culture? Our information (as posted in the stickies) is pretty general and your daughter’s situation is bound to vary slightly. Also, if recruitment is within the next week, you might not have the time or ability (past deadlines?) to worry about recommendation letters, etc. I'm sure that if your daughter is at least half as excited as you seem to be, she'll be more than happy to inform you of how her process went. Good luck.