[Tippiechick]

Originally Posted by uk2011

So I know that a lot of people are going to beat you up on this, but I completely understand. I got cut from two houses where I really felt at ease and the girls kept telling me how much they wanted to see me back the next day. When I got my schedule the next day, I saw that they had both cut me, and that I was going back to a house where I sat in awkward silence for 45 minutes. I didn't feel comfortable there at all, and the girls that I talked to acted like they were bored out of their mind.

I was completely shocked at the way it turned out, because it just seemed so random. I still don't know what happened, but on Pref night, I went back to another house I initially didn't really care for, and the girls were wonderful. I didn't end up joining that house, but I gained a newfound appreciation for them. I do love where I ended up but what was so hard for me was that the girls in the first two houses seemed so fake and I couldn't understand why they were telling me they loved me and hoped to see me back and then they cut me. I guess I'll never know.

So do what feels right to you, if you're still going through. I just accepted my Bid today, so I am completely new to all of this. But I did want to say that I understand, and I know what you mean.

I think 99% of us understand, as we have all gone through rush. Most of us have had a similar experience. But, few of us thought we were too good to wear a group's letters... It's all in the attitude.