thanks for all the help guys.
two clarifications-i did not move in next to a fraternity, i chose a neighborhood and a few years later a fraternity moved in (BUT, i'm not trying to start some kind of "i was here first" discussion, that doesn't really matter at this point) and i brought up the race issue because i've seen it discussed here before so i wanted to at least acknowledge it, but not discuss it in this thread.
i do really appreciate the suggestions.
thanks again
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