[UGAalum94]

There's been one pnm that I didn't write a rec for because I had reservations about her as a person. I also knew she wasn't a good fit for the chapter at the campus where she was rushing, so it wasn't going to be much of an issue.

It wasn't a situation for which she requested a rec and I passive aggressively didn't do one; it was a situation in which I was writing recs for the girls from my hometown and I just didn't take the initiative to do one for her.

I can't really imagine a girl who I had reason to not recommend ever directly asking for one, but I think I would just decline, rather than have her think I send in a positive one when really I was hurting her chances.

ETA: It would take pretty high level of proof of bad acts before I would really no rec, maybe arrest or suspensions from school. I just can't imagine a girl with a really bad hometown reputation asking for one.