Don't quit and go elsewhere. You made a commitment to membership and you owe it to yourself and the organization to honor that commitment. You can still be friends with the members of other organizations. Some day you will get married. It would be poor advise to break the covenent with your wife to pursue another relationship. Make an investment in the right relationships and in the organization to make it better. Those investments will pay off for the organization and for you, personally. Work to bring out the best in people and the organization. Expose those who are negative in fraternal relationships and organizational development. Don't just complain, but instead, offer better solutions. You will face challenges, but that will make you stronger. Do the right thing
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