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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
@Bolded starting with #2) That is too much judgement of a behavior you cannot control. NO ONE--NOT even her baby's daddy, will EVER understand her lack of control without medical treatment. And if you are not a licensed clinical psych evaluator--neither should you try to rationalize her actions... All you can do is actually act on your Sorority's programs and give assistance in the form of leaflets or pamphlets or call the crisis center hotline... (I am so wrong for that, I know ...) In fact, I have a EXCELLENT 1-800 number...
#1) I am happy you have CHOSEN NOT to act on your impulses. That is wonderful. You need to congratulate yourself by giving yourself a heart salutation and gift for your choice of resilience and basically keeping the faith for your enemies.
What would it take for you to move forward on this situation? Just asking?
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LMAO at your post! What would it take for me to move on? Funny you should ask. Been thinking about this during this whole thread. It made me realize I do need to move on from this. So . . . . I think I'm gonna start by sharing the story with my closest soror. Knowing her personality, she'll probably LHAO! lol Then I will drag her with me to an NPHC event sometime this summer. . . She'll give me the emotional support I need while LMAO in the process b/c I know she will have jokes for my ears only!
Who says GC can't solve all your problems?