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					Originally Posted by  RU OX Alum
					 
				 
				...this scares me  
 
take the kids and get out now! 
  
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 She's in a bad situation, but what about counseling? This is a very personal issue, but I am curious to know if he doesn't think of her that way because he views her as a mommy and not "sexy" per se or if he is just not attracted anymore. There are lot of married and single people who tone it down with their spouse/partner because they're drained at the end of the day...
 
I agree with proceeding with caution when kids are involved, but at the same time, she has to do what is best for her.