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Originally Posted by lauralaylin
What helped me feel more connected to my chapter was getting involved. I decided to attend all events, took a position, and forced myself to do things because I thought it might help me. And it really did. While I never had the same connection to the other sisters that they seemed to have for each other, I still became much closer to the other sisters. I also developed a wonderful connection to my organization as a whole. I really feel like it was worth sticking through it. I love being an alum and am very active now and have made a ton of close friendships with sisters not from my chapter.
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I beleive you said it all.
One only gets out of what they put into any group whether now or after graduation.
One may be board or does not get along with certain members but there is the real world out there that will be the same way.
For the original poster, You and only You can make the decission.
Be a bigger part of something or not. Graduation is a major part of life, would you like to have Sisters from all over that you could talk with or a friend or two or none?