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Originally Posted by 33girl
I was just going to say that this is definitely a penis/not-penis issue.
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I prefer to think of it as a vagina/not-vagina issue.
Anyway, I agree that rushing for guys is generally a less potentially traumatic experience than for girls. Outright rejection is not that common (in my experience), and if it happens, is done on a one-on-one basis, rather than getting rejected by every house at once through an impersonal phone call, as can happen in NPC recruitment. If a guy's not going to fit in at a house, he can generally tell, and if a guy hasn't gotten a bid, there's plenty of opportunity to withdraw from rush, whenever the rushee wants, with whatever reasoning the rushee wants to use. ("Those guys were douchebags, I wouldn't have taken a bid if they'd offered me one.")