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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
To be married and sustain it, what worked for me, us, is ultimately, we chose each other to love.
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Oh I look at soulmates as a choice to love, too, so my view of soul mate may differ with others'. I believe that people are brought into your life for a reason but that every soulmate or person you love isn't marriage potential. When it's all said and done,
we choose who to get to know and whether we want to take it to the next level.
No doubt you've got it all in check.
It just made me think of the OP's question about "the one" and how some people would keep trying even if their mate (even spouse) told them that they aren't "the one." But that may be different than soul mate, depending on how folks define it.