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Originally Posted by 33girl
We aren't saying she needs to "get past it" just because she freaked out in Gymboree when she saw an ex-sister. It's understandable that an encounter like that would unnerve her. This woman cannot be around ANY LARGE GROUP OF WOMEN without feeling trauma. That isn't a typical experience of a rape survivor. She has 2 small children, and she really needs to get help before she implants the mindset in them that other women can't be trusted. They don't deserve to suffer because of her experience.
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As weird as this sounds, I don't know if the date rape thing is what is traumatizing to her the most. In her article I believe she said she felt that way with any large group of women BEFORE she joined the sorority and that most of her friends up to that point were guys.
Some people might feel socially awkward around some or all people and this weirdness might have to do with self-esteem or something so the fact that all of this happened (her sisters giving her the boot) was the icing on the cake for her.