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Originally Posted by 33girl
The thing is, when she & I first started to have problems, I told my best friend some of the things she said & asked if I was overreacting. My BF went  and said "I've never trusted her any further than I could throw her." Then everyone started coming out of the woodwork - it was like the time I broke up with my first boyfriend and everyone said afterwards that I was too good for him. I think they all thought that they didn't like her, but if I did it was OK... |
this statement is so true. when my long-term boyfriend and I broke up, my good friends had me over for dinner the next day and 30 people showed up to celebrate that I had "woken up".
To the OP, I think that only time and distance will heal your heart, but the fact remains that you may never have a relationship with these two again, and it is probably for the better. One of the hardest things I have learned growing up is that sometimes we are badly hurt by people we care about (friends or significant others) and the best way to handle it is to move on with your life, without those people in it.
Some relationships are worth fighting for, and some just are not.