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Originally Posted by AlethiaSi
For me, this happened after all of this went down, and I tried to talk to her, and then I realized that I didn't want to spend time with her anyway, she was annoying, rude, obnoxious, inconsiderate to me and to my friends, but I felt like no one else could see it. After all that, some of them did.
In some ways, it is a worse betrayal. I'm sorry that you had to go through that 33 (and/or are still going through it) Friendships that break up for whatever reason still really hurt... 
Maybe I wouldn't have come to the same conclusion if this hadn't happened... but I guess it did happen and I did see her for what she was. (a trashy boyfriend stealing hoe   ) |
The thing is, when she & I first started to have problems, I told my best friend some of the things she said & asked if I was overreacting. My BF went
and said "I've never trusted her any further than I could throw her." Then everyone started coming out of the woodwork - it was like the time I broke up with my first boyfriend and everyone said afterwards that I was too good for him. I think they all thought that they didn't like her, but if I did it was OK...I've always been friends w/ people who don't get along w/ each other. I don't think any of us realized how treacherous she could be.
She just isn't in my life anymore, and while a childish part of me would like to "have it out" with her because we never really did, I honestly don't miss her (as in talking to her or doing things w/ her) at all. She betrayed my trust so much that I wouldn't feel comfy saying more than "hi" to her, and we had less in common as the years went on. It just got pointed up when I met people I clicked with immediately & felt like I'd known forever. I got through it and so will you. **hug**