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Originally Posted by SydneyK
I agree that her bf needs to know what his brothers are saying to her. However, I think she should address the rudeness herself before sending her bf in. Then, if the brothers don't respond positively, her bf should approach them. But it's her battle first.
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Nope. It's his battle first. He shouldn't make her be the heavy.
I'll agree, though, that she shouldn't be sending him in. He should be taking care of it without her having to ask.
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
Also something to put this in perspective, he won't be an collegiate fraternity member forever. Eventually he'll graduate and the whole hanging around the house thing will be a non-issue (except for special occasions and alumni events).
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Again, I'll have to disgree. Sure, he won't be an active in a few years, and college will be behind them, but if it's not his fraternity brothers, it'll be some other group of friends.
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Originally Posted by gem_star17
and alethia, we dont have much in common. but 3 yrs is a long time and i think thats the main reason we're still together.
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Do you really want it to turn into 4 or 5 years if you don't have that much in common and he's not willing to stand up for you?