Thread: Is this right?
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Old 09-20-2007, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted by Frienze2010 View Post
Would it be odd if say 4 girls in a single house, get that same phone call from 4 different guy friends of mine. How would you look at that, is that normal?
I would look at that as "oh my God, leave us alone about this girl already, I don't want to hear her name anymore."

If it's a guy who's your REALLY good friend - not an acquaintance - not a party buddy - it's one thing for him to say to the women he knows in sororities, "Frienze is my friend and she's really great, and I'm pretty sure she's interested in rushing."

But quite frankly, if I kept hearing a girl's name from multiple guys (and never from other girls) I'd be a little leery of her. It almost seems like you're trading on your friendships with these guys to try to get into a sorority. Not to mention, girls in other sororities DO talk to each other, and if ABC, DEF and GHI all compare notes and find out that a giuy called them to talk you up...it's not going to look very good.
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