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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

First thing, calm down.

Judgng from what you said, you've only been in the sorority for like 2 weeks max. You need to give things time.

All relationships take time to develop. People seem to think that relationships within a sorority are supposed to be instantaneous.

Think about your best friend for example. You guys weren't bff's overnight, right? Same thing with the sorority. Everybody needs time to get to know each other and figure out who everyone is.

As far as your Big, give her a break. She might have been on her way somewhere in a hurry and didn't notice that you were 'dying'. She's human. You can't jump to the conclusion that she doesn't like you or doesn't care about you because of one isolated thing. She might not even know you feel this way if you didn't tell her.

As a new member, you will have PLENTY more opportunities to get to know girls and make friends. I would't start thinking you made the wrong decision, because even with B, it wouldn't be an instant thing. Everything takes time.

Good luck!

Haha I'm working on it (calming down) We had been in contact prior to running into each other at the health center so she knew how sick I was. I'm just afraid that it's not going to work out, and I have to decide by initiation which seems like it's just around the corner. As far as remembering how it was with my best friends, that's the problem. I haven't had a girl best friend in years. Almost all of my friends are guys with the exception of a few decent girl friends. I hope it all works out. Thanks for the advice!