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Originally Posted by prospective88
I just thought... what if one of the beta girls comes down and sees me at the alpha event and realized that i left their event to go to another one... how will that look? by the time these events take place i will have attended an equal amount of events for both sororities so i don't really want to have to choose one over the other... not so soon anyway...
if any could give me a lesson on rushing etiquette for this type of situation, i would greatly appreciate it!
thank you!!!
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Go to both.
It's unlikely anyone from Beta will come to Alpha's event b/c recruitment events are usually mandatory for sorority women -- e.g., they really can't leave and cruise around. Even if someone did happen to pass by, it's unlikely they'd stop and scope out the situation long enough to realize you were there -- loitering too long at another sorority's recruitment event would make her look like she was either really awkward or trying to "spy" for some reason.
Going to multiple COB events was always encouraged at my school. If anything, I think it would make a sorority "compete" harder for a PNM if we knew she were carefully weighing all her options. Go to both, have fun, and don't worry -- you're doing the right thing.