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Originally Posted by augreekmom
My daughter kept saying that they were being told that while the system wouldn't always guarantee your 1st choices, you would at least end up with with a group that wouldn't be mismatched in terms of your interests, hobbies, personalities, etc.
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Maybe she just has yet to find out what those similarities really are? Also, she might find that they already have events throughout the year that are athletic events she can participate in, and by going to those events she can bond with the other members who also enjoy them.
In any case, this is what the new member period is for-coming from an SEC school myself-the new member classes are generally pretty large & have a large range of interests & personalities. Getting to know other new members, as well as active members during this time before Initiation is key, and if she doesn't find her niche then that is OK. I would imagine that she wouldn't want any regrets for not trying.