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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
If my girl or wife said she was going to hang out with her friends, I would be cool with it as long as it was somewhere decent. To me a club or a strip club is not. There's no way I would be with a woman that hangs out at night clubs, and strip clubs (I'm not saying you, but some married men/women do). Hey, if that's the type of crowd she likes to hang around, that's fine by me, we just won't be together, that's all. They say birds of a feather flock together, so for me it's good to see what kinds of friends she's close to.
Btw: Hanging out with friends weekly while married I'm not down with either. Your spouse should be your best friend. Kickin' it weekly with girlfriends is too much. I'd have to let a woman like that go.
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i agree. people neglect to remember why they went to the clubs BEFORE they were in a relationship. that shouldnt be going on in an exclusive situation. my man and i will go together on occasion. sometimes we just want to go bump & grind on a dance floor with a few drinks in us. and at the end of the night, i can take him home!
my fiance sees his best friend maybe once a week or so. there is no constant hanging out, not that i dont love his friends, because i really do like every one of them, but he isnt gonna run around and chill while im stuck in the house pregnant
. damn that! i think another thing i noticed is that the older the guy gets, and the more settled his friends get (kids, jobs, wives, etc) the less time everyone else has to hang out. they are all content sometimes just renting a movie and watching it at the other persons house, for a change of environment.