[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by OneTimeSBX

i second that! nothing makes me feel better than going to the mall and buying a hot pair of shoes...something that makes other guys stare at my legs when we are out together ...i have a cousin, not married a whole year yet and every week they are divorcing, or so they say. giving each other space certainly helps that, if you are always up underneath each other you dont have time to miss each other. take a break, a girls weekend away or see a game with the guys, just make sure you come back lol!

Nothing wrong with doing fun things and hanging out with your friends. I agree 100% about not sitting up under your significant other all the time, but that all depends on where ya'll are hanging out, and how much ya'll are hanging out.

Also, I disagree with you when you say you would buy a pair of shoes so other men will look at your legs. Now if you said you bought some shoes to look good for yourself or your significant other then that's cool, but unless you're single, you shouldn't be trying to turn other men on. Not cool. Well, I wouldn't like it if my girl or wife was doing that mess. Whatever floats your boat though.

If my girl or wife said she was going to hang out with her friends, I would be cool with it as long as it was somewhere decent. To me a club or a strip club is not. There's no way I would be with a woman that hangs out at night clubs, and strip clubs (I'm not saying you, but some married men/women do). Hey, if that's the type of crowd she likes to hang around, that's fine by me, we just won't be together, that's all. They say birds of a feather flock together, so for me it's good to see what kinds of friends she's close to.

Btw: Hanging out with friends weekly while married I'm not down with either. Your spouse should be your best friend. Kickin' it weekly with girlfriends is too much. I'd have to let a woman like that go.