[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by lillady85

In response to what you said PrettyBoy, what if there were no mixed feelings? What if there is no question as to how you feel for the other person, but, there are things you need to work out on because the relationship has become too much to handle? Not that I like that either, it makes it seem like, oh well if you can't handle it right now, what makes you think you can handle it later?

But I get what you're saying. Except, when the feelings are still there, what to do? Wait or say, all or nothing?

See, this is the problem. The main reason why the divorce rate is so damn high. Jokers think since the relationship is getting a little rocky, they can't handle it and want to take a break. WTF? Dude, I don't have time for it. Yeah, it would be hard when the feelings are in the way, but I look at it like this, if I got dumped or if she told me "I need a break" then that tells me her feelings weren't as strong for me as mine were for her, so I wouldn't want a weak woman like that. The person that says I need a break is the one that's as soft as drug store cotton. I can't stand weak jokers like that. That's exactly right what you said. If it's not working out now and the weak joker wants to take a break, then that's the same joker who's going to continue to be weak in the future. Why would you want a soft batch idiot like that? Seriously. I can see if he/she is cheating or there's physical or verbal abuse, but other than that why break up? Jokers love that "friends with benefits" crap though. Then they turn around and wonder "oh how did I get this STD?"