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Originally Posted by marquise1911
This felt like a glimpse into my future, as i am now back on da market with no aspirations of remarriage.
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Originally Posted by marquise1911
My brothers... we need to GET IT TOGETHER!!!
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Are you contradicting yourself? What was your reason for starting this thread? Cause you know it's gonna be a heated one!!
I've been married, lived with a man, and have been proposed to at least 3 times in my lifetime. I know what marriage is and what it aint. I remember being really mad when my father said to me once when I was just 18, that old something about the cow and the milk being free. Back then, I was like WTH? Oh what did he know?

I have found through many a broken heart that those old-fashioned values hold true.
I listened to my pastor a few years ago saying something like most women only react to what they think the man wants. Many women DO NOT want to be promiscuous. fSome women have not had the proper upbringing or wisdom instilled in them from their parents. Yet, some of them have but what they hear everyday from their peers/music/movies, etc. makes them behave otherwise. If young women start carrying themselves like a prize and waiting for the man to take his proper place as a man ... well 357 Nupe said it best.