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How it works: If your guy friend is in a fraternity and you guys are good friends and hang out a lot, he says "Hey wanna be my little?" You say yes. The end. You don't really do anything special. You just get to call him "Big".
I can see why this type of thing is frowned upon, because it causes DRAMA (at least on my campus). Example:
Let's say Bobby Beta has good friends in 2 different sororities, Suzy Sigma and Amy Alpha. Bobby and Suzy start hanging out alot and he makes Suzy Sigma his "Little". Amy Alpha gets upset because she thought that she and Bobby Beta were really good friends. So she goes over to Beta one night, gets a little tipsy, and confronts Bobby Beta about not making her his "Little". Suzy Sigma jumps in to defend her "Big". Drama ensues, and Amy Alpha gets kicked out. She now hates Suzy Sigma and Bobby Beta and tells all of her sisters to never party there again. She also starts saying she hates Sigmas and will tell everyone who will listen how "stupid" they are. All this drama over a silly title.
Viola, instant drama, which is why most (if not all) NPC sororities have policies against these types of relationships.
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Last edited by KSUViolet06; 11-08-2008 at 01:33 AM.
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