An honest, well-taught new member! Congratulations!
Bottom line: Your friends will be happy that you found your sorority home, at the college of your choice. Your non-friends will not be so happy. There's a song from the WWII era, Accentuate the Positive, Eliminate the Negative, Don't Mess with Mr. In-Between. It sounds as if you've already figured that out - congratulations and hope you get the bid you want!
PS: A recruitment thread would thrill a LOT of us!
