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Originally Posted by ladygreek
I know you asked this of AKAMonet, but I feel you. That is why so much defensiveness is shown even when we are trying to help. 
Bottomline: they do somewhat resent the D9 regardless of what they say. Sometimes people avoid situations that may lead to rejection so they never try. Then they can always say I wasn't rejected, I never even applied. |
It's just hard for some people to accept the fact that not everyone thinks the D9 is a FIT for them.
I admire the D9 and respect it, but from what I know and have observed (and I admit I don't know everything and haven't observed everything), I don't
think any of the sororities and myself would "fit" together. I am too non-conformist, too much of a free-thinker, too militant, too outspoken, and I'm not all that big on tradition - which I think is a big no-no in the venerable D9 sororities.
I know myself very well, and it is better that I do my own thing or remain independent. My choices have nothing to do with resentment or rejection.