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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek
Women rapist? No. How is that possible? I don't see how, guys are physically stronger than women.
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Lets say the guy is drunk, the woman sober. He's passed out. She physically arouses him and has sex with him without his consent. Is this rape? Because if it's rape for a woman, it's rape for a man.
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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek
I could see if the guy wasn't physically attracted to the woman, but if he's physically attracted to her, and he gets an erection, knowing him, he's gonna enjoy it rather he wanted it or not. I heard that guys think about sex every 7 seconds or something like that. 
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NO NO NO. Physical arousal =/= consent. Women have orgasmed during rape because their bodies were stimulated by it. But it does NOT mean they wanted it and it does NOT make it consensual. These women have to live with the guilt of their body's betrayal over the betrayal of whoever raped them.
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Originally Posted by tld221
i read / was told that date rapers get off on the whole power shift and the added bonus of destroying the trust that was built in said relationship. so the woman (or man) is left not only feeling physically taken advantage of, but also mentall. its a blow to the self-esteem that they were "dumb enough" to let it happen, and by someone they knew.
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Makes sense to me, I haven't actually gotten to study them specifically. I tend to think it's an overall malformed perception of women and their purpose. I do think there's just really stupid guys out there too.
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ok, i see this being a rehashed topic that may have been had on GC, but...
Y E S. women can be rapists. the issue of power and control still exists. i think in this case, the man may be of the "i cant believe a woman took advantage of me sexually... i shouldve enjoyed it, but i didnt... what's wrong with me" vs a woman thinking "i didn't want that... was it my fault... did i ask for this... maybe i shouldn't have gone with him, or been out late, or whatever"
as for a woman physically holding a man down and raping him... who knows. she could drug him like a dude. or she could beat him silly just like a dude could a woman. some male rapists arent as big and rough as you'd imagine them to be.
and man-on-man rape happens too if we're gonna go this route... but i cant imagine a dude (gay or straight) is gonna stick a Rapex up his butt and hope for a safe night.
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A lot of times a man is afraid to fight back. There are women who emotionally and physically abuse their partners as well. Domestic abuse is viewed as very one sided because hey "a guy should fight back right?" Just as certain personality characteristics can keep a woman with an abusive man, the opposite is true.
ETA: Like women don't have sexual thoughts all the time too. That's a fake statistic btw, there's no way to measure that accurately.