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Originally Posted by Drolefille

From reading the websites, I do not see anything that says a complete understanding of what it is to be black is required. Understanding the goals is an entirely different matter. You did not encourage or discourage anyone, I wasn't only discussing your comments however, but others I've seen on this, and other more NPHC focused message boards. I never said I thought this was an issue at an organizational level, simply one on an individual level.
I would expect members of an organization to be looked at with equal respect and not to have their motives questioned after they are already members. Isn't that the purpose of a pledge period/membership process or whatever?


Believe me, this isn't some sort of crusade nor huge personal issue, but not only can I not help be offended based on my own personal morals, but I do not wish to be un-offended when someone makes a racially biased remark. It is a moral issue with me. So no, I cannot be.

I don't think I stated the website expressed a view on blackness or qualifications. My opinion is that of my own. I am not an official spokesperson of the organization so I can comment on her stance nor would I. I just find it curious why a non-person of color would want to join a BGLO that focuses on issues that affect people of color namely Black people and our community. I truly think that I view the responsibility to my community as a duty and I personally know the dire need to uplift my community. It's not something I opened a book to learn but something I live and live with everyday. I don't see a white member having the same level of commitment, passion, and level of responsibility to my people as I.

Regarding the respect issue I think I stated I would not disrespect a white member, I just simply wouldn't vote for a white candidate. But going back to the original question of the thread. If you are a white member of a BGLO, you have to expect that some aren't going to be happy with your choice.

I'm not sure how my statement is bias. I think it's a fact that my experience as a black woman is different than that of a white woman. I don't care how liberal, so called color blind one may claim to be, you truly can't understand the struggle and beauty of my people. We may have similar issues regarding women's right for example, but join the Women's league.