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Originally Posted by So_Sweet720
I never understood this perspective or line of reasoning. I would never disown my child because they chose to go a different route than I did. For me it's all about what makes my child happy. My husband is a Sigma (Phi Beta Sigma) and I am a Zeta (Zeta Phi Beta). If any of our daughters or son don't decide to become a Zeta or Sigma there will be no love lost. My Godmom and aunt are both Delta's and while I love them dearly, I had to do what was best for me, not what I thought would make them happy.
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I wouldn't disown anybody, but I will be definitely be very happy if I have a daughter who goes Delta
I would be happy if she chose another NPHC sorority, but not quite as happy. I don't know how I would feel if she chose a group outside the NPHC - it would depend on the group. I'd deal with it as long as she had good reasons for her decision. (No matter what I'm not paying for it.) I know my fiance would like it if we had a son that went Phi Kap, but I don't think he would be upset if he didn't. Neither of us would be crushed or anything if our hypothetical future children chose not to go Greek at all.