[So_Sweet720]

Originally Posted by eli_the_chopper

from a guy's perspective:

I'd disown my son if he didn't join Lambda Chi. Doesn't even matter if his school doesn't have a chapter. Maybe he should've thought of that before applying.

I never understood this perspective or line of reasoning. I would never disown my child because they chose to go a different route than I did. For me it's all about what makes my child happy. My husband is a Sigma (Phi Beta Sigma) and I am a Zeta (Zeta Phi Beta). If any of our daughters or son don't decide to become a Zeta or Sigma there will be no love lost. My Godmom and aunt are both Delta's and while I love them dearly, I had to do what was best for me, not what I thought would make them happy.