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Originally Posted by SWTXBelle
Here's an example of what I think you were looking for, James.
I was an alumna advisor, and one of our collegians was in trouble for having sex with a fraternity member on the fraternity's pool table, and another incident in a phone booth. When pulled up before standards, she said that her sex life was none of our business. Usually true, I replied. But when everyone, including your advisors, knows of your sex life because it is being conducted in public, then it is our business. Everyone at this small school knew she was a Gamma Phi, and she was hurting the entire sisterhood by her blatant disregard for the sorority's reputation. She stormed upstairs, with me following close behind to get her badge.
The problem wasn't that she was having sex. The problem was she was doing it on the Sigma Nu's pool table. And in the phone booth. And God knows where else . . .
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This interests me, if only because you kicked her out. I'm not saying she was a shining example of a good sorority woman, but I'm surprised you didn't give her a chance to rectify her behavior. Yes, she went off on you, but most people will when they're embarrassed like that.
It may have been a little harsh, especially if she was a good-standing member of the chapter in other ways.